You hide the real you. You change yourself to fit in the crowd. You often wonder if people would like you if they knew what you really thought. Sometimes you wonder if they'd acknowledge if you went missing. You often feel like no one understands you when you do speak your mind. Your personality is constantly changing, depending on the group you are around. But nevertheless, you can always see the positive and negative attributes on each side of a conflict. Be true to yourself, those who don't like it aren't worth knowing anyways. .